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Thursday, December 30, 2010

Smart Money - Work or Retire?

Here is a pretty interesting quote I found on a website today:

"For middle-class Americans, retirement simply means a new phase of their working years, according to results from the sixth annual Retirement Fitness Survey from Wells Fargo & Company (NYSE:WFC). The survey found that 72% of middle-class Americans between the ages of 25 and 69 expect to work through their retirement years. The trend is driven both by deep deficits in personal retirement savings – 39% say they “will need to work” to make ends meet or maintain their lifestyles – and also by lifestyle choice, with 33% saying they will continue to work because they want to."

That is nearly 3/4 of all working adults.  How scary is that?  And that is just the middle-class.  I'm sure at the working class level, it's probably even higher than that.  So where do you fall?  

If you want to work into your 70's or even 80's, that is just fine and dandy, but if you feel that you will have to, that is just sad.  I know the economy has taken a nasty turn that none of us could have expected and that a lot of us did everything that conventional wisdom told us to do, but the reality is that the economy does take a nose dive every generation or two and will continue to do so.  

But the fact is that, barring serious illness or accident, you are going to be an old person someday, and you are going to need money.  Money for food, shelter, medicine, and a ton of other things.   Given the way the economy is going, we may end up needing even MORE money than we need now.  

So how are you going to make this happen?  I'll tell you, we are going to have to live our lives much more the way our parents and grandparents did.  After the lessons of the Great Depression, they learned to live much more frugally, to save a large portion of their money and to live well within their means.  

I remember being shocked when I heard that my Dad didn't used to cash his paychecks.  Before he married my mother (the Queen of spenders!) he would wait until he had three or four paychecks at a time before he would cash them, and the payroll department would get mad at him.  Like most "normal" people, I literally count the minutes until each payday and I can't even conceive of someone who doesn't need to cash their paycheck.  But those are some of the frugal habits of a lifetime that we need to start cultivating if we want to be in that tiny percentage of people who are going to be able to retire.  

Dave Ramsay has a quote that really fits this situation perfectly.  "Live like no one else, so you can live like no one else".  Excellent advice, I think!

If you'd like to view  previous posts on the finances, click the label at the bottom of this post for a complete list.   


 

Monday, December 27, 2010

Clutterbugs: Time to Take the Tree Down

OK, we've all done it, but let's not do it this year. We all know people who still have the Christmas decorations up clear into March, but that's not going to happen this year. Yes, it's a big job, but you can do it fairly quickly and then you'll be done for another year.

My mother was quite superstitious and she would be horrified that I am keeping my tree up past the New Year. She felt that it would bring the spirit of the past year into the New Year and Lord knows, this year has been gnarly enough, but I'm not as superstitious as she was. And I have a reason this year. We are having a New Year's Eve party and since we didn't really have anyone over during the holidays, I'd like people to see my pretty decorations before I store them all away. But I promise you, it is coming down no later than January 2nd! If nothing else, I want my living room back.

So, how to go about it? Well, there are two schools of thought here - a bit at a time, or the whole enchilada? I know myself and I know if I do it a bit at a time, I won't get back to it for days, so I always opt for the whole enchilada.

If you want to do it a bit at a time, schedule 15 minute sessions once or twice a day with the goal to have it done by the end of the week.  If you're going to do it all at once, set aside an evening (like tonight!) when some of Santa's helpers will be around to help you.

I have my husband and son do all the lugging of boxes up and down the stairs while I do the more delicate work of packing everything up so nothing gets broken. Most of my decorations are hand made and very precious to me, so I don't usually like for anyone else to put them away. Then if I break something, I can't get too mad at myself.

I use the empty boxes to store all my everyday decorations, so it's more like redecorating than undecorating. Keep a store of tissue paper or newspaper handy for the more delicate ornaments and be sure to put the heavier stuff on the bottom. Don't forget the outside decorations. Maybe not the lights until ice and snow go away, but be sure you get all the wreaths and stuff from outside.

Don't forget to take one last sweep around the house before you put away the last box. There's nothing like forgetting one darn thing and having to dig everything back out to put it away. Or worse, having it hanging around the house all year.

That's it. Bye-bye for another year Christmas decorations. Go and have yourself a cup of hot cocoa. You've earned it. 



What is your plan for putting away your holiday decorations?

If you'd like to see past posts on the subject, click on the label at the bottom of this post for a complete list.  



Saturday, December 25, 2010

Christmas 2010 at the Crazy House

Merry Christmas from the Crazy House!  2010 was a great Christmas for us.  Everyone is doing well and jobs are a bit more stable this year, so we were able to have a nice holiday this year.  We managed to get a little time with our family - a weekend with the grandkids and a quickie visit with my sister & brother-in-law who are vacationing in Hawaii this year to see one of their kids, who lives there.  


We made visits to both of our churches (Methodist & Presbyterian) and spent some fun time relaxing with friends. It's been hectic and busy, but we've had a very nice time.  I made up for it with a 3 hour nap after presents this morning!  

Matt came to spend the weekend with us.  I was so worried when he moved into his own apartment, but we've adjusted better than I expected and it seems like he's around here almost as much as before.  Of course, I still haven't seen his apartment since we moved him in.  Might be kind of scary by now!  


This year, it looks like I'll be taking up a couple of new hobbies - my friend and I are going to take a jewelry making class, and I got a watercoloring book for Christmas.  Actually, I bought it for myself at the Book Fair.  I could hear my Mom whispering in my ear.  She had always wanted me to try my hand at watercoloring.  (Now I just need to buy skatey-eight dollars worth of supplies to be able to try it.  Kind of makes me sad that I spent three months selling off a whole room full of these same supplies that had belonged to her.) 



Hope you had a wonderful Christmas with your own family and friends.  Merry Christmas from the Crazy House!  

Monday, December 20, 2010

Stamped Stuff: Digital Page: Sleepyhead

This is a fun page I made for my son Blake.  He is always falling asleep on his Scout campout and one of the leaders shot these pictures.  I thought the red, white & blue color scheme complimented his red shirt and the chair perfectly. 



Clutterbugs: Easy Peesy Dinner Party for 12

Does the thought of having people over to your house freak you out? Flylady calls that CHAOS - Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome. Before I came up with my cleaning and decluttering system, I used to do that too. Having guests over was a virtual guarantee of several days of panicky activity as I would run around doing crisis cleaning and yelling at my family the whole time. But now it's no big deal and I can have company over all the time. It's fabulous!

We're had a dinner party tonight for a dozen people and getting ready for it was pretty easy. All I really had to do was stick to my daily routines. That took care of the basics like dishes, laundry, and making beds. 

Then I used my 15 minute clean-up times during the week to clean one room each morning and delegated another one to my husband when he got home. His TV room was in pretty bad shape, so I'm sure it took more than 15 minutes, but he did a great job on it and it will be all set for a week or two. 

It took the boys a bit longer than that to do the downstairs family room, but that's Matt's fault. I swear that boy simply explodes when he hits a room! His keys are in one place, his wallet is in another and his shoes, CD's and magazines are everywhere. Kids - arrgh!

Matt is in charge of floors, so I've had him doing a bit of sweeping and mopping in different areas every night and Blake has been keeping up on the trash and the cat boxes. All I had to do was do a bit of dusting, clear some everyday stuff off the kitchen counters and give the bathrooms a quick scrub. 


We did a whole turkey in a cooking bag - easy peasy, and the guests brought some delicious side dishes.  Then all I had to do was put out the table cloths and set up the chairs.  I even managed to squeeze in a quick nap so I would be nice & fresh to enjoy my evening.

This is exactly what I try to teach in my classes. I've spent too many Saturdays frantically scrubbing and cleaning to want anyone else to have to go through that hassle again. With the daily routines I teach, along with proper decluttering and learning how to get your family on board, having friends and family over can be fun and virtually stress-free.  

If you'd like to read some of my previous posts, click on the Clutterbugs tag at the bottom of this post for a complete list.




Friday, December 17, 2010

Smart Money: iVillage Have the Talk Program

A couple of months ago, I did a guest post about the Have the Talk program that is going on over at iVillage.  This time, during this holiday season when we spend so much, I want to give you my own take on this important topic of educating our children about financial responsibility.

Let's face it, these little people who live in our house are going to be adults someday, some of them sooner than others, and if we don't teach them now, they will not have that opportunity in their adult lives, unless they go through a lot of really hard lessons on their own.  

"If WE do not teach our children financial responsibility NOW, they will NOT be financially responsible as adults"  

That is a daunting responsibility, but really, who else are they going to learn it from?  Their friends? Not likely.  The media? Yikes!  All the media wants them to do is spend, spend, spend, and buy, buy, buy.  Their spouses? Maybe, if they are lucky enough to marry someone who is good with money, but likely they will be the one fighting to hang onto their free-spending ways.  That means their best hope is YOU.

So, let's look at that.  What are you teaching your children about money?  I know we've all heard the advice about allowance - how much, how often, how to divide it up into savings, charity, etc.  But that's not the only way children learn about money.  Mostly they learn from watching Mom and Dad.

When your kids see you whipping out that credit card for every little thing, stressing out about paying your bills, borrowing money from relatives, constantly saying "we can't afford it" or we're broke".  Those are lessons and those lessons work their way deep into your child's memory.

How much of a different lesson would it be for them to see you spending time planning your family budget, shopping smart with coupons and sensible bargains, paying your bills on time, and saying things like "we don't choose to buy that right now" or "how can we save up for that?"  I'm not saying it is easy and for some people, this might be a major lifestyle change, but if it will have a terrific effect on your children, it might be worth trying.   

I can honestly tell you, that's what made the difference for me.  My Mom loved to spend with the best of them (a lot like me), but she had a lifelong savings habit that kept her spending from causing too much damage.  

What really impressed me was that when she went into retirement, she set up part of her small pension to go into a savings account, so she would have money in her retirement life for unexpected expenses.  That impressed me so much that I adopted the savings habit at a very early age and I can honestly say that I have saved a portion from every single paycheck I've ever earned as an adult.  

The interesting thing is that you just never know what little tidbit is going to stick in someone's mind.  One thing that really caught my attention about my Dad was when he casually mentioned that he had never had a car payment.  

The was totally different than anything I'd ever heard from anyone else.  Seems like everyone else I've known before or since, considers a car payment something of a fixed, on-going expense just like a phone bill or any other bill.  But he bought inexpensive used cars (a lot of them, he was a terrible driver!) and he paid cash for every single one of them. 

That impressed me so much that I have either tried to save up and pay cash for my cars, or worked really hard to pay off the loans as quickly as possible, so I can go back to having no car payment like my Dad.  I've never had a brand new car, or even a very fancy one, but that bothers me a lot less than the idea of having a three or four hundred dollar a month car payment hanging over my head. 

Here are some resources that will help you with your own children:

Go to Facebook and find out more about the #HavetheTalk campaign.  They will donate $1 to Junior Achievement for every Facebook share.   

Stop by the iVillage website for some additional resources on how to talk to kids of all ages about financial responsibility.  Here is a link to the video for the #HavetheTalk campaign.

Disclaimer:  I’m excited to join in the iVillage ‘Have The Talk’ Facebook Campaign. There is a GoodNCrazy giveaway in conjunction with this promotion, join us!
 



 


Monday, December 13, 2010

Stamped Stuff: Oct/Nov Stamp Class Projects

I haven’t posted any stamped stuff lately.  These are the projects from my October and November classes.

SU Oct Projects (2)

I love this buffalo from In Wilderness.  With a little extra sponging of ink around the edges, it gives it a nice vintage look.



SU Oct Projects (3) 

This set is so gorgeous, but I don’t always know what to do with it.  Stamping it didn’t really give it enough depth, so we ended up embossing it in black.  Then it was easy to just add a little ribbon and some fancy corners.  I love to do this shadow effect with the tag punch.  Makes the punch stand out so much.



SU Oct Projects (4) 
I included this one for old time sake.  This is very similar to the card I did at the party where I first signed up. I remember I was SO impressed with myself that I could create something so awesome that I signed up the next day!


SU Oct Projects (6)
I've had this Cute by the Inch set and I've just been itching to do something fun with it.  So I did these itty bitty gift cards in a rainbow of colors.




SU Oct Projects (7)
For our 3D project, we actually did personalized Pyrex dishes with the glass etching cream and some stencils.  Unfortunately, I forgot to take pictures of any of the finished projects, so I grabbed a quick picture of this lovely etched plate I received during Convention.  It's hard to see in this photo, but it is etched with the Manhattan Flower stamps. Sorry, I lost the label of it, so I don't remember who it was who made it.  


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This is a gorgeous simple card.  It's one of the rare projects that I cased almost exactly.  It's just something that if you added or subtracted anything from it, Unfortunately, I didn't write down whose card it was I was copying, so if it is yours or you know whose it is, please let me know. 

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This was our November 3D project.  I just love these stationery folders.  They are so easy and you can do them with any color or stamp set.  I've probably made 50 of them over the years.  It just takes one sheet of cardstock and 2 pieces of printer paper, so it's a very economical gift too.  Usually I throw in a few envelopes and some stamps. 
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This was our other 3D project this month. These are just some votive candles with initials. This would make a lovely grouping with some larger pillar candles. You could spell out Joy, Peace, Love, or someone's name instead of initials. Very versatile and another inexpensive gift.


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This is my favorite technique, mainly because it's so easy and can be done with materials I have around the house.  This is Faux Silk and it's done with crumpled tissue paper and a glue stick.  It doesn't show up well in the pic, but it has a lovely raw silk texture to it. 

This card got the most rave reviews from my customers.  Unfortunately, it doesn't photograph well, but the Night of Navy section is deeply embossed with snowflakes from my new Snowflakes embossing folder.  Really sets off the white ribbon and the red corner.  It's a little bit of a patriotic Christmas, but that's kind of fun, I think! 
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Thursday, December 9, 2010

Smart Money: Money is Not for Spending

This is a great essay from Mary Hunt - she is the author of numerous books as well as the famous Everyday Cheapskate newsletter. She is my favorite mentor when it comes to money and spending issues - and I've used this essay a couple of times because it illustrates the point so clearly. Her website is DebtProofLiving and I really suggest you go over there and check out some of her books and other resources.

If you have a spending problem (and I do as well), you might want to print this one out and tape it to your mirror or something. I think it's some very powerful information that might really help you to change your ways.

Money is Not for Spending
by Mary Hunt

It took me a long time to fully understand that money is for managing first and then for spending. It takes courage to believe that, but when you do it will profoundly change the way you think about and manage your money.

Imagine this: It's Friday, a day you have come to know and love as "cake day". You want cake, you love cake and doggone it, you deserve to eat cake. You stop at the store and pick up the ingredients necessary to bake a cake. But even before you can get home, you begin eating the ingredients because you are so hungry for cake you simply cannot help yourself.

You gulp a couple of eggs; chew up some butter and sugar; and down a load of flour and cocoa. You pull into the driveway completely disgusted with yourself. You try to hide the evidence but it's all over your face.

The worst part: Eating the cake was not nearly as satisfying as you'd dreamed. It was anything but enjoyable. The ingredients for your chocolate cake are gone and now you feel ashamed and embarrassed.

An absurd analogy for sure, illustrating the foolishness of eating food that has not yet been prepared. The very same ingredients that made you sick could have become a culinary masterpiece had you exposed them to a recipe. Those ingredients were not for eating; they were for preparing first and then for eating.

It is equally foolish and unsatisfying to spend money that has not first been managed. To manage money means to take full possession of it, to subject it to a specific plan and direct it accordingly. It is a matter of creating a season of ownership between receiving and dispersing.

Managing money is a learned discipline, a gratifying process. When money flows into your life, you are responsible for where it goes and how it performs. You are the boss. You can watch it drift out of your control or you can manage it according to a formula that you have developed.
It doesn't matter if you are a single parent struggling to survive with no outside help or the CEO of a prosperous business. You need to know ahead of time exactly how you will manage your money.

There are certain mandatory elements that must be part of your management system, like giving and saving. When you bring reason to the management of your income, feelings of dissatisfaction, worry and hopelessness will quiet down. You will be driven to plug the money leaks in your life. A commitment to spending no more than you earn will become so important, you'll find yourself keeping track of where the money goes.

No matter your situation--single, married, old, young, whether you're deeply in debt, unemployed or at the top of your career--you need a system through which to process every dime that enters your life.

Only then will you fully understand why money is not for spending. It is for managing first, and then for spending.

Be sure and come back every Thursday for a fresh installment in my Smart Money series. To see the rest of the series, just click the tag at the bottom of this post and it will bring up a list of them.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

The Great Christmas Hunt!

I was over at Tip Junkie looking at all the fun Christmas tips she has on her website and that reminded me that I have a fun Christmas idea to share too.


Every Christmas, we do the Great Christmas Hunt. This started when I remembered how much fun my kids have every Easter with their Easter Egg Hunt. When they were little, I would hide and re-hide the eggs all over the house because they had such a fun time just going around finding all the eggs. So I came up with this fun idea for them to hunt for one of their Christmas presents.

It all starts here. On our Christmas tree, there are two of these little mailbox ornaments - a red one and a green one. I made a bunch of them back when I was in High School and I still have these two of them. I start out by putting a post-in note in each mailbox - one for each boy. The note will direct them somewhere else in the house where they will find another note. That note will send them somewhere else for the next clue.


It's hilarious because I try to get really inventive with the clues. I try to space each clue as far away as I possibly can, so we end up with kids running back and forth all over the house. I usually send them out to the mailbox or the backyard or somewhere just for the fun of seeing them run outside in their Christmas PJ's - it's all part of the fun and they love it.

Sometimes I will make the clues a little vague just to trip them up. For instance, I'll say Bathroom Mirror, but I won't say which bathroom - we have 3 of them. Or I'll say In Your Shoes and won't tell them which pair. I try to do about 5 clues for each boy, which is sometimes hard because I'm usually setting them up after the midnight Christmas service. It actually takes a bit of thinking to plan out two different trails for the boys and to remember to put the clues in the right places.


The final clue leads them to their present - usually it's a big, hard-to-wrap present like a bike or a skateboard. That way I can hide it in a closet or somewhere in the garage. My kids just love it! Even my 19 year old still begs for the Christmas Hunt. Give it a try, I'll bet your kids will love it too!

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