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Friday, February 19, 2010

Emptying the "Empty Nest"

I don't know how many of you have grown kids as I do, but once your kids are actually out of the house, it's surprising how much "stuff" they think they are entitled to leave behind. It's stuff that they don't really need and don't actually plan to use, but Lord help you if you try to get rid of it.

Do you really want to be storing that stuff clear into your retirement? It's really just clutter, taking up space that you could use for more useful items.

If you really want to get rid of it, you need to have a plan. If your kids are flaky like mine, just asking them to come and get it isn't really going to work. Going through boxes of old junk, even their own, isn't going to be their idea of fun and it's not going to be high on their list of priorities.

One thing to do is to set a firm date. Give them a good month or so to get around to it, but then let them know that after that date, the free storage deal is going to be over. Then give them a head start on the project. Go through the stuff and start sorting it into some general piles - clothes, books, papers, school projects, etc.

Technology can help you with this project. Get out your digital pictures and document the items as you go. You can easily post the pictures to a Flickr account and share it with them. That way, they can see exactly what they are dealing with and that is likely to give them a little motivation to save some of the things that are more important to them. If nothing else, you can have them tag the pictures of the things they want and the things you can get rid of.

Then just box it up and leave it in the garage for them to come, get it (or not). And enjoy your now uncluttered space. Just try not to fill it up with all of your old, unneeded junk.

Be sure and come back next Monday and Friday for the next installment in my Clutterbugs series. To see the rest of the series, just click the Clutterbugs tag at the bottom of this post and it will bring up a list of them.



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5 comments:

strokeofliving

I get the "hoarding" thing as a daughter. Stuff is important to us but yes we can go home to pack it up or toss it. Things are attached to memories. So as long as we hold on to our stuff the memories will remain thick.

Thanks for your comment on my post yesterday.

Grand Pooba

Oh my god you are brilliant! I remember when I first moved out and left all my stuff behind. If my mom would have just emailed me pictures so I could tell her what to keep that would have been so nice and I would actually do it!

Genius I tell ya.

Mrs4444

Oh, wow. That's never occurred to me, and it makes a lot of sense! I'm a few years away from that, but I will definitely keep it in mind. Thanks.

Unknown Mami

My daughter is only 17 months old, but you've really given me ideas for my own stuff. I need to start storing some of it digitally.

qandlequeen

Honestly I wish my mother would have just brought the box over. I don't remember her saying come and get it and I'm not sure I would have jumped on the opportunity. I have spent the last 20 years digging through my accumulation of crap trying to find a set of books that I last saw in my bedroom when I lived at home. Did she really toss them out? I guess so.

My two older kids are out of the house, but not quite "on their own" so I supply storage. I'm not sure how much longer that will continue. I figure in the next year they both should have an apartment and boxes are going to be headed that way. No room? Not my problem.

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